The start of spring is always a little tumultuous. One day it’s warm and sunny, and the next day freezing rain is tapping at your window. That’s okay though, because we know there are good things on the horizon. Keep your chin up this month, stay focused, and you’ll see payoff for all of your endurance soon.

So we’re still doing this a year later, huh? Nothing is normal and if we continue down the path some of us are on now, nothing will be normal for a long time. With that in mind, we’ve put together some warmer weather date ideas for the ongoing hellscape that is life with Coco.

March showers bring…wait, no, that’s April showers. So it’s still winter. But even so, the ground is beginning to shift and make room for new life to shoot up in the coming months. March will bring the first rumblings of change, and we are HERE. FOR. IT. That’s not to say that change always feels smooth or easy—we said rumblings, didn’t we? Not caresses or soft kisses. But if we can ride it out (and we can), it will be so worth it.

Whether you’re edging, trying to achieve the coveted simultaneous orgasm, or practicing the withdrawal method and want your partner to come before you pull out, sex is not always about getting to the finish line. You have your reasons, and we celebrate them. So here are 5 tried-and-true ways to delay your orgasm.