Pedro Pascal Summer: Why everyone’s obsessed—and why you should be too

Pedro Pascal has been lovingly declared “daddy of the internet,” “soft dom zaddy,” and everyone’s fave emotional support man. And if we’re being absolutely, totally, and completely honest? We see it, we live for it, and we’re fully locked in! Pedro Pascal has mastered the artful balance of gentleness, emotional awareness, strength, and utter sex appeal. He can be so unserious in the characters he plays on the big screen while also being a public figure that’s unafraid to stand on business when it comes to very serious current issues.

So we’re jumping on board in declaring this Pedro Pascal Summer. 😍 We may not know him personally (call us, please), but we do know what he represents—a walking, talking relationship green flag in a world full of red ones. Pedro Pascal Summer is a celebration of green flag energy in your relationships, your situationships, your crushes, and most importantly, in yourself. Let’s break it down…

What even is “green flag energy”?

We’re always talking about red flags to look out for in a partner—which is important, of course—but it can be just as important to know how to spot the healthy patterns in love and dating, just as much as the toxic ones. That’s what green flags are all about.

There are tons of green flags and the ones we each find as the most important can vary from person to person. But the underlying vibes are the same. If your special someone is emotionally mature, respectful, and ready to meet you where you’re at, those are some pretty solid signs of green flag energy. These positive signs are what creates space for connection, pleasure, and growth in a relationship.

So, what are some green flags to look for?

Here’s a cheat sheet, Pascal-style:

They respect your boundaries, without judgement or defensiveness

In interviews, Pedro brings the gregarious energy that exudes his personality. He’s game for tackling the range of questions, no matter if they’re about his role, steamy scenes, or his personal life. BUT he consistently sets clear limits on questions he’s not down for with his signature kindness and humor.

• IRL: A green flag partner doesn’t guilt-trip you when you say “not tonight” or “I don’t want to do that.” They don’t need an explanation for your “no.” They get that boundaries = trust.

They hype you up without making it about them

Ever seen Pedro on a red carpet? He’s hyping up his co-stars, directing the spotlight to others, and showing love without trying to center himself.

• IRL: A green flag partner celebrates your wins, listens when you talk, and doesn’t compete with you for attention. They want to see you shine.

They know how to apologize and take accountability

Not a Pedro example, but a Joel one. We don’t want to spoil Season 2 of The Last of Us for you, but Joel delivers an apology that you can feel, taking full accountability for his actions, even when it’s uncomfy.

• IRL: A green flag partner understands the importance of a genuine apology that starts with accountability, empathy, and a willingness to show up in the way you need—not hitting you with an “I’m sorry you feel that way.” A partner committed to healthy communication can reflect, take constructive feedback, and course-correct.

They’re secure in themselves (and let you be too)

There’s something deeply attractive about someone who doesn’t need to perform masculinity, dominance, or bravado to be desired. It honestly gives us the ick. That’s yet another reason why we love Pedro—he rocks painted nails, loves his family, and is comfortable being vulnerable and showing emotion in interviews. That security in his identity and self is sexy AF.

• IRL: A green flag partner doesn’t expect you to shrink so they can shine. They’re comfortable in who they are and aren’t threatened by your independence, ambition, or softness. In fact, they see those as lovable qualities they want to support. In fact, they see those as lovable qualities they want to support.

Green flags in you also matter

Green flags aren’t just something to look for in others, it’s something to embody within yourself. Here are some ways to know you’re bringing that green flag energy to your own relationships:

✅ You check in with yourself on what love and connection really mean to you.
✅ You’re committed to your own healing and create space for others to do the same.
✅ You honor other people’s boundaries without taking it personally.
✅ You’re open to learning, unlearning, and growing.
✅ You give and receive care and support, without keeping score.

Pedro Pascal Summer is about more than just swooning over our fave internet daddy. It’s about rethinking how we define sexiness, kindness, and emotional maturity. Whether it’s with a long-term partner, a summer fling, or just for yourself, embrace the green flag energy and set a new standard for love that makes you feel respected, safe, and turned on. We’re sure Pedro would agree—you deserve it.