For Ramiyah, it’s all very logical: Sex is fun. Sex can lead to pregnancy. If you want to have sex and don’t want to have a pregnancy, birth control always needs to be part of the equation.
Ramiyah prefers to use condoms as her method of birth control. What if the guy doesn’t have one? Not a problem. Ramiyah does. And what if a guy wants her to have sex without one? That’s easy, too. They won’t be having sex. Because she’s done the math and the only way it’s going down is with the addition of a condom.
Forget one in the moment? There is no heat that hot.
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