Micro-cheating. It’s hard to define, partly because it’s going to be different for every relationship, but we think of it as physical cheating’s annoying younger cousin and emotional cheating’s annoying younger sister. It definitely doesn’t include any physical cheating, and it has some of the components of emotional cheating but doesn’t go quite as far. We can say this though: when you’re doing it, you know.

Sure, winter can be super sexy if you have a working fireplace and some kind of faux fur rug, but for those of us in old, drafty houses or poorly heated apartment buildings, we’re going to need to get creative.

Just because you’re home for the holidays, that doesn’t mean you’re suddenly going to have zero sex drive, right? If all the fall foliage, cozy sweaters, and delicious side dishes have you raring to go, here are some tips on how to make it work.

Trapped in the never-ending, relentless, 24-hour news cycle that makes you beg for the end to come soon? Find yourself involuntarily covering your eyes and ducking under your desk anytime you get a news alert on your phone? Don’t worry, Bedsider’s got your back, as always. This time, we’ve rounded up our 10 favorite articles about sexual health and birth control from the past month to make it really easy for you to get the facts on the things that could affect your health.