Ah, Valentine’s Day. That special time to eat lots of chocolate and celebrate all types of love from self-love to best friend love to romantic love to sexy love (or any combination thereof). This year, for our 4th annual Make Some Love, we’re celebrating with our one truest, most loyal love: condoms.

Micro-cheating. It’s hard to define, partly because it’s going to be different for every relationship, but we think of it as physical cheating’s annoying younger cousin and emotional cheating’s annoying younger sister. It definitely doesn’t include any physical cheating, and it has some of the components of emotional cheating but doesn’t go quite as far. We can say this though: when you’re doing it, you know.

Sure, winter can be super sexy if you have a working fireplace and some kind of faux fur rug, but for those of us in old, drafty houses or poorly heated apartment buildings, we’re going to need to get creative.

Just because you’re home for the holidays, that doesn’t mean you’re suddenly going to have zero sex drive, right? If all the fall foliage, cozy sweaters, and delicious side dishes have you raring to go, here are some tips on how to make it work.