Today, we’re celebrating Frisky Friday by sharing some of our favorite tweets from the day, because nobody can say it better than you.

Actually, self-care is anything you need to do to take care of your body and mind—whatever that looks like for you. It could be anything from brushing your teeth to going to therapy to eating enough food.

We’ve all been there. All dressed up with nowhere to go, so to speak. Maybe it’s after midnight and everything is closed in your town, maybe if you try to tiptoe down the creaky stairs you’ll wake up your mom who will then ask lots of questions like are you really going out dressed like that young lady, or maybe you’re just too dang lazy to be bothered with getting out of bed.

Though we’re probably not seeing photos of models flaunting “perfect vulvas” on Instagram or ads selling us $100 overnight vulva serums, our vulvas are very much subject to unrealistic and damaging beauty standards.