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Five ways to initiate sex this weekend

Let’s be real, initiating sex can be hard. If you happen to be totally in sync with your partner all the time, then maybe it’s not, but that’s not reality for most people. It’s very easy to fall into a pattern of just waiting for your partner to initiate. This is especially true for women in heterosexual relationships because we live in a culture where men are expected to always want sex and women aren’t. But that’s not fair to anybody. So as a goal for 2020, consider working on building up the initiation muscle. Here are five ways to get started.

Bedsider’s definitive 2019 holiday gift guide

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how-to , frisky friday, culture, gift guide

The holidays don’t have to be a time for stress and running around town shopping in the frigid slushy weather. They could simply be a time to share things you love with people you love. And hopefully they’ll love those same things, but if not, that’s on them! Here’s a list of our 10 favorite gifts for the 2019 holiday season. The best part is that you can get everything on this list without ever taking off your Snuggie.

Your Thanksgiving guide: Sex positions for when you’re too full to move

Look, maybe turkey is an aphrodisiac for you. Maybe it’s your only opportunity to get any action while staying with family because everyone passed out after dinner. Maybe you’re just looking for any excuse to take your pants off. We’re not going to try to guess why you might want some hot, hot Thanksgiving sex. We’re just going to help you make the most of it.

How to have sex when your job is killing you slowly

This is probably news to exactly no one, but working kind of sucks. Even those of us lucky enough to have landed what we would call a “dream job” will attest to the fact that working is still work, no matter what. Anyone who says otherwise is an alien or an aspiring Instagram influencer and we recommend breaking up with them. But when work-induced misery starts to impact your sex life, that’s where we draw the line. Here are 7 ways to pull it back.