Your partner makes a move with all the lights on, and suddenly all you can think is “they’re going to see my stretch marks.” Wouldn’t it be nice if instead you could be thinking about what feels good and how to get more of it?

August has a reputation for being a slow and simmering month, but the stars suggest that a lot of change and fluctuation might be on the horizon. Hold on tight, it might be a bumpy ride.

If you’re like us, you’ve probably been hearing your whole life that men are sex-crazed, insatiable wild animals. So what to do when you have a male partner who’s just not that interested in sex, but you are?

Just in case you’re in the mood to twerk it out before you talk it out with your partner in a steamy situation, we put together a list of songs to inspire you.