There’s so much pressure to find our soul mate, so it isn’t surprising that we turned to rulebooks of bad advice to help navigate dating. With our 5 (realistic) tips in mind, we wish you some very successful future dates.

Of all the summertime traditions, going to camp might singlehandedly be responsible for more firsts than any other. Yes, that includes slow dancing, kissing, and maybe even schtooping. But it could also include performing in front of a crowd, winning an award for doing what you’re great at, or facing a fear (hello, ropes course) and doing something scary anyway.

Earth Day is Tuesday, April 22nd and we plan to go out and do something green. Want to join us? Here are a few ideas to inspire you whether you use them for a date, with friends, or on your own. (And if you want to do something green in bed, we can help with that too.)

Hearts will pound. Muscles will tense. Goose bumps will appear. Breathing will become heavy. Are we describing fear or orgasms?

Both induce an adrenaline rush, but for the sake of Halloween, this time we’re talking fright night/date night… Now, get ready to go out and grab each other.