While the holidays are obviously an awesome time to buy gifts for your loved ones, they’re also a great time to treat yourself. And you know what fits perfectly between gifts for people you love and gifts for yourself? Gifts for your SO that you can use together to boost intimacy in your relationship.

There’s so much pressure to find our soul mate, so it isn’t surprising that we turned to rulebooks of bad advice to help navigate dating. With our 5 (realistic) tips in mind, we wish you some very successful future dates.

Of all the summertime traditions, going to camp might singlehandedly be responsible for more firsts than any other. Yes, that includes slow dancing, kissing, and maybe even schtooping. But it could also include performing in front of a crowd, winning an award for doing what you’re great at, or facing a fear (hello, ropes course) and doing something scary anyway.

Earth Day is Tuesday, April 22nd and we plan to go out and do something green. Want to join us? Here are a few ideas to inspire you whether you use them for a date, with friends, or on your own. (And if you want to do something green in bed, we can help with that too.)